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How to Find Your Chill (Part 1): 3 Ways to Calm an Overactive Nervous System

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Master Life Coach, Wife & Mom, Certified Nervous System Fitness Expert, Somatic Experiencing Practitioner, Podcaster, Attorney, and Deep Believer in Curiosity and Self-Compassion

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Let’s cut through the noise about self-care and stress management. This isn’t about slapping a band-aid on burnout or anxiety. What I’m sharing today are simple, science-backed tools to shift your nervous system from fight-or-flight to safety and calm. Use these regularly, and they can transform how you feel in your body—and your life.

If you’re dealing with burnout, anxiety, or that constant background hum of stress, stick around. By the end, you’ll have practical steps to start feeling better today. And if you want even more support, I’ll share how Burnout Recovery Blueprint (BRB) can guide you further.


Understanding the Overactive Nervous System

Before we dive into the tools, let’s explore what’s happening in your body.

Your nervous system’s job is to keep you safe. When it senses danger—real or perceived—it activates your fight-or-flight mode. This system is brilliant for emergencies, but modern stressors like deadlines, emails, or arguments keep us stuck on high alert.

That “stuck” feeling can show up as tension, shallow breathing, or even digestive issues. Your body is doing its job, but it hasn’t gotten the signal that it’s safe to calm down.

The tools I’ll share send your body that signal of safety, helping your nervous system shift into rest-and-repair mode. Over time, this rewiring creates a baseline of calm.


Tool #1: Primal Stress-Release Movement

Stress primes your body for action—tight muscles, fast heart rate, all ready to fight or flee. But in modern life, there’s no tiger chasing you, just an inbox. That energy builds up, and sitting still or deep breathing can feel impossible because your body craves movement.

Here’s the fix: primal stress-release movement. When stress builds:

  1. Shake It Out: Stand up, plant your feet, and shake your body—arms, legs, hands.
  2. Dance It Out: Put on an energizing song and let yourself move freely.

This mimics what animals do after escaping danger—they shake off the stress. It helps your body complete the stress cycle, signaling that it’s safe to relax. A few minutes of intentional movement can make a big difference.

Imagine having more tools like this—that’s what I teach inside BRB.


Tool #2: Transformative Breathing

Let’s talk about breath—something we do 20,000 times a day but often get wrong. Shallow, mouth-breathing signals danger to your nervous system, keeping you stuck in fight-or-flight.

Instead, try this:

  • Slow Inhales, Longer Exhales: Breathe in for four counts, then out for six. This activates your vagus nerve, signaling calm.
  • Alternate Nostril Breathing: Close one nostril, inhale, then switch. This balances your nervous system.

The beauty of breathwork? It’s always available to you and can create instant calm.


5, 10, & 15-Minute Somatic Practices

These tools are adaptable to your schedule and needs:

  • 5 Minutes: Ground yourself when overwhelmed or ruminating.
  • 10 Minutes: Release tension and channel anger.
  • 15 Minutes: Deeply relax for better sleep or increase energy.

Closing: The Path to Peace and Presence

These tools aren’t quick fixes—they’re a roadmap to rewiring your nervous system for lasting calm. Start with movement and breath, and see how quickly your body responds.

If you’re ready for a deeper transformation, Burnout Recovery Blueprint offers a step-by-step guide to creating a lifestyle rooted in peace, presence, and nervous system regulation.

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You my friend, are called to a life of fullness and abundance - no matter how wild this motherhood journey is. It's time to trade the exhaustion and overwhelm for peace and joy.  No more hot-mess express.  I've got you. 

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