Michelle Grosser

MICHELLE GROSSER

Nervous System Strategist

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Somatic Techniques to Release Stress From Your Body

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Master Life Coach, Wife & Mom, Certified Nervous System Fitness Expert, Somatic Experiencing Practitioner, Podcaster, Attorney, and Deep Believer in Curiosity and Self-Compassion

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Stress is not just something you think about.
It is something your body experiences in real time.

Every interruption lands somewhere in your physiology.
Each transition asks your nervous system to adapt.
Every unspoken responsibility adds another layer of activation beneath the surface.

The nervous system responds to all of it—sometimes quietly, sometimes loudly.
That response happens whether you consciously notice it or not.

This is why stress cannot be solved through mindset alone.
Thoughts don’t complete stress cycles.
Logic doesn’t metabolize adrenaline.
Insight doesn’t discharge cortisol.

The body needs movement, sensation, and release.
Without those outlets, stress chemistry settles into muscles, fascia, breath, jaw, diaphragm, and gut.
Over time, that accumulation becomes allostatic load—the wear and tear that builds when your system never fully resets.

Somatic practices matter because they work where stress actually lives.
These tools aren’t indulgent or trendy.
They are biological necessities.

Below are three simple, body-based techniques that help release stress before it compounds.
Each one creates a clear exit ramp out of survival physiology and back into regulation.


PART I — Why Stress Must Be Discharged, Not Avoided

The body was designed to experience stress.
Physiology was never designed to hold stress indefinitely.

When something stressful occurs—an email, a tense conversation, a schedule change—your system mobilizes.
Heart rate increases.
Muscles tighten.
Breathing becomes shallow.
Attention narrows.
Cortisol rises.

Those changes are adaptive in the moment.
Problems arise when the system never completes the cycle and returns to baseline.

Modern life rarely provides natural resolution.
One demand stacks on top of the next.
Yesterday’s stress lingers beneath today’s responsibilities.
Over time, the nervous system stays partially activated even during rest.

Allostatic load affects far more than mood.
Digestion slows.
Sleep fragments.
Hormonal rhythms disrupt.
Emotional tolerance shrinks.
Joy becomes harder to access.

Somatic practices interrupt this pattern deliberately.
They give the body permission to finish what stress started.


PART II — Somatic Practice #1: Shaking

Shaking is one of the most instinctive stress-release mechanisms humans possess.

Animals shake after danger passes to discharge excess activation.
The behavior signals safety at a nervous system level.
Humans retain this mechanism, though social conditioning often suppresses it.

To practice shaking, stand with soft knees and let movement emerge organically.
Hands can tremble.
Arms can swing.
The torso can twist gently.
Breath can deepen without control.

Structure is unnecessary.
Duration matters less than authenticity.

Even thirty to sixty seconds can shift internal state.

This practice works because it discharges sympathetic energy stored in muscles and fascia.
It interrupts bracing patterns that keep the nervous system on alert.
The movement signals completion to the brain without requiring interpretation.

Relief often follows quickly because the body recognizes the message immediately.


PART III — Somatic Practice #2: Progressive Muscle Relaxation

Chronic stress often hides in sustained muscle tension.
Jaw clenching, shoulder elevation, abdominal gripping, and pelvic floor tightening frequently occur without awareness.

Progressive muscle relaxation retrains the nervous system to recognize and release that holding.

Choose one muscle group at a time.
Contract gently for five seconds.
Then release completely.
Notice the contrast between effort and ease.

Move slowly through the body—hands, arms, shoulders, jaw, legs.
Let each release deepen awareness of safety.

This technique communicates directly with the brain through mechanoreceptors.
Intentional tension followed by release activates parasympathetic pathways.
The nervous system learns that letting go is both possible and safe.

Over time, this practice reduces baseline bracing and improves emotional steadiness.


PART IV — Somatic Practice #3: Heel Drops

Heel drops combine grounding with gentle discharge.

Stand with feet hip-width apart.
Lift the heels slightly.
Drop them back down and allow the vibration to travel upward through the legs.

The movement should feel rhythmic and contained rather than forceful.

This practice activates the proprioceptive system—the sensory network that tells the brain where the body is in space.
That input is deeply regulating.

Heel drops also release tension stored in the calves, hips, pelvic floor, and lower back.
The sensation anchors attention in the body, interrupting mental spirals naturally.

Many people find this technique both calming and energizing, especially during mentally overloaded moments.


PART V — Stress Discharge as a Daily Practice

Stress itself is not the problem.
Unresolved stress is.

The goal is not to eliminate activation from life.
The goal is to give the body reliable ways to complete stress cycles before accumulation occurs.

Shaking.
Progressive muscle relaxation.
Heel drops.

These practices work because they speak the nervous system’s language.
Used consistently, they lower baseline activation, widen tolerance, and restore access to clarity and presence.

Regulation does not require perfection.
It requires participation.

When the body feels safe enough to release, the mind follows.

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